Biggest lesson of 2019 ⛅️
A few days before the end of 2019, I know a lot of people
going through a lot of difficult situations. This year, It is almost over. After putting us a lot of challenges in
our life, and growing up with people with a beautiful heart and some giving us
a lesson on how to grow up. So let’s just thank 2019 for the best experienced
that given to us. Indeed, this year give me a lot of experience and unbearable pain. I swear that it wasn't easy and soo difficult for me to stay strong, but alhamdulillah with Allah's wills, I managed to survive and be strong each day. It's worth and all of those hard times did pay off;
The thing that I learned was;
should never abandon Allah SWT or else, the human will abandon you 🌾
“Take a good care of your relationship with Allah SWT and then Allah swt will protect your relationship with human beings.”This is from Serban Putih telegram channel;
They asked you, “Why don’t you worry?” — “I leave it to God,” you said.
Trusting God is like letting go of the things that has entangled you and believe that He will catch your fall.
“If Allah helps you, there is none to overcome you. And if He abandons you, then, who is there to help you after that? In Allah SWT, believers should place their trust.” (Q. 3:160)
Be good with our parents if we want to be happy 🍒
It's a blessing if our parents still live with us until this day. There's a lot of people who want their parents still alive. Always be good and make our parents happy, inshaAllah our life will be at ease. No matter how annoying our parents were, but always be good towards them. As long as they did not make or bring any harm to us. Islam is a religion that is very concerned about doing good to both parents. Even the practice of birr al-walidayn (doing good to both parents) is one of the greatest acts of worship after faith in Allah S.W.T. This is as shown by the word of Allah S.W.T:
وَاعْبُدُوا اللَّهَ وَلَا تُشْرِكُوا بِهِ شَيْئًا ۖ وَبِالْوَالِدَيْنِ إِحْسَانًا
“And pray to Allah, and never ask Allah for anything. And be kind to both parents.”
(Surah Al-Nisa'; ayat 36)
Trust me, you'll be happier and more at peace whenever you're being good at your parents. Their blessing will lead to Allah SWT blessing. There's nothing that can be worried anymore, you know if you're being good towards them, Allah SWT will make your life at ease. So, keep on being good and treat them better. May Allah SWT will ease everything! 🙌
Always be good towards people, and the good follows you 🍁
We often misunderstand this situation. If we hate those people, never treat them good and if we like that people, be good with them. In Islam, we should be good no matter what; if we don't like, be good and if we like, be good also. We will not lose anything if we're being good, but our hearts will be more at peace and happy. If we're being good, we will be lead to a good thing also. We will prevent someone from being bad if we keep on showing the good of being a good person. In the Quran also said, be good if someone is being bad with you and this shown in Surah Fussilat;
ادْفَعْ بِالَّتِي هِيَ أَحْسَنُ فَإِذَا الَّذِي بَيْنَكَ وَبَيْنَهُ عَدَاوَةٌ كَأَنَّهُ وَلِيٌّ حَمِيمٌ
“Reject (evil directed against you) in a better way; if you do so then the person who has feelings of hostility towards you will immediately become as if he were a best friend.”
(Surah Fussilat; ayat 34)
Sheikh al-Maraghi also said:
“Abolish the ignorance and ignorance of the unbelievers in a good way. In other words, respond to their evils with kindness; confront their anger with forgiveness, and deal with their anger with patience. This is because if you are patient and treat them that way they will be ashamed of themselves and they will stop doing so.”
(See Interpretation of al-Maraghi, 12/6073)
Lastly,
Stay positive in everything 🍬🍭
Stay positive no matter how hard it's; because whenever we're being positive, all the negative vibes will afraid to get near. How to be positive? Well, we should start with our minds. When we set our minds to trust the positivity, we will be more positive. We should trust that everything happens, there's must be a positive side from that. Our mind is the greatest started to be positive. After that, surround yourself with positive vibes. Be a friend and keep your circle with a positive person, and be a person that can lead negativity to positivity.
“you may hate something, but it is good for you and you may like it, but it is bad for you, Allah knows, and you do not know.”
(2:216)
Believe that Allah has better plans for you.
Stay positive always and may Allah bless all of us ❤
Stay positive always and may Allah bless all of us ❤
Have faith. 💪
Salam kasih from, Aliss Wafa 🌹
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Nice input and good reminder👍
ReplyDeleteThankyouu! May Allah swt will always bless you :)
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